@Siniy-Kit I have posted for you a quick modification of a widget of mine to selectively control refresh via a subfilter, and to never refresh if there is no filter specified: https://gist.github.com/saqimtiaz/e9611a5dd37ac247fc16aa3d4dfb3e23
Usage Examples:
To never refresh a list:
<$refresh>
<$list filter="[!is[system]count[]]"/>
</$refresh>
To refresh only when the subfilter returns a match in the list of tiddlers that have changed, in this case when tiddler xyz changes:
<$refresh subfilter="[match[xyz]]">
<$list filter="[!is[system]count[]]"/>
</$refresh>