I dont want to judge anyone, but as a first responder and spending some time answering what I thought was a genuine question to have either my ideas or the argument about wikis or colaboration dismissed as an after thought was uncomfortable. I thought I and others had put forward a good arguement.
It may have being a little soon to clasify it as “sealioning”, which I had never heard of, but I recall at the time feeling somewhat put apon by @FrittRo. I understand that in a community we rely on the maintance of approximate social norms of civility and I thought it was fair for this to be called out at the time.
I am quite tollerant of both moods that can affect people and neuro divercity, and its true we should do our best to tollerate differences but we also hope that we can maintain this civility because it has made this forum one of the best.
If you look through all the community members responces even @CasperBooWisdom attempt to explain what was objectionable, they were all resonable, and thoughtful and for those in the know who @jeremyruston is, gave the definative explanation.
Just remember chat forums are a limited form of communication and not always perfect at communicating the subtlties of human conversation.
Of course @FrittRo is welcome to continue in the forum, and I hope will not take this personaly, we do not know @FrittRo “from a bar of soap” and as a community we simply ask for a little more thoughtful/respectful discussions. If anyone has the chance they will discover this is one of the most open and constructive forums available and we should not be supprised if it occasionaly has an “immune responce” to protect itself.