Mark, no person without a cognitive disability can fully understand the challenges of a person with a cognitive disability.
So I am not picking on you as an individual person.
I am, though, addressing the majority of the human population, people who do not have a cognitive disability. Well, I assume the majority does not have a cognitive disability.
So you are the normal one. An enviable position to be picked on because one is normal. You should be so lucky.
I’ve mentioned in various places what I’ve found challenging with discourse, and I’ve got other challenges that I may bring up over time when I feel comfortable to do so.
My only reason for chiming in is because what TiddlyTweeter mentioned re “threading becomes very complex”, the questions of “how” and “what do you mean”, and the answers, are pretty interesting.
If I had been the one posting what TiddlyTweeter posted, I would have immediately withdrawn from the discussion.
My saying I find something complex, I’d immediately exit the conversation, intimidated by “I don’t see complexity.” I’d feel “poo-pooed” or “there-thered”.
Again, you are the normal one. I’m the one with the challenges. I’m just saying that if you keep the conversation inviting, it might be easier to figure out “wheel-chair-access-in-the-cognitive-sense”.
You are the normal one, and you are communicating as the majority of normal folk would. I’m just trying to suggest a way of steering conversation to make it a little bit more welcoming to those of us with challenges.
I’m sorry you feel singled-out, but it isn’t about you. It is about a general lack of sensitivity by the able-minded.
But it is only fair that, if I’m going to ask anybody to step into my shoes, that anybody should in turn ask me to step into his/her shoes.
If anybody feels slighted/attacked/whatever because of how I’m trying to suggest something that would be helpful for folk like me, then please:
Let me know how I can suggest something that helps me in a way that doesn’t have a negative impact on you.
If you find it difficult to converse with somebody who has a disability, the person with the disability is the person who has the answers but also the person who has the challenges of expressing them.
It is a very tough dance.