I agree with that - freedom can be a daunting place as well as an exciting one - tomorrows irritating restrictions are todays comforting guides.
I left the world of software engineering but during that time I hated editors like emacs precisely because I hated the endless configurability I was interested in the software we were writing and not the editor used to write it - others felt very differently.
Ironically I love the configurability of Tiddlywiki
I think it has something to do with the way we view these tools - are they just tools to get the job done and of no interest in themselves or do they take on a life of their own that interests us.
Some people may decide they like spending the time working with Tiddlywiki’s endless possibilities, others may be frightened off by them and some may not be very interested and just resent the extra fluff that seems to get in the way.
You can’t please everyone.