- Really find it hard to see the “condescension in my words” so to move forward either;
- help me understand, ideally privately if you want to be frank and avoid flame wars
- or people need to stop reacting emotionally to the contestation of ideas.
- Well we have to agree to disagree, all I can say to this is, there are personalities in our community who are prickly to deal with. They respond quickly with emotional fervour, anger and sometime silently black list others without even asking the author, source of their distress “what they meant”.
- This is of course part of the natural diversity of people.
- But it does not mean it is right to "respond quickly with emotional fervour and anger.
- It is very difficult to write useful criticism’s of intellectual arguments without sometimes using words that people of different backgrounds may misunderstand.
- This thread is an example and why I call for a little more generous consideration of what people say.
- The problem here is that if the claim that the “That communication seems dismissive or harsh,” is made, it is then difficult to contest it.
- Basically the first negative response
- Once someone responds emotionally to someone else’s comments without first requesting clarification, it puts the author in a difficult position. This is I believe what has occurred in this thread.
- I was after all only offering a view point, I did not accuse someone, I did not insult someone personally.
My next post is about the OT and if anyone is still listening I would appreciate your perspective about the ideas not the person, “me” in this case.